Nice Guys Finish Last / You’re too nice – but not because it is purely the guy’s fault. Some women have no idea what “nice” is actually worth and live in a delusion of what is attractive… From the publisher of: NO! IS THE WORST SHE CAN SAY? LOL…THAT IS WHAT YOU THINK (www.amazon.com A discussion to address the subject about girls telling certain guys that they are “too nice”. The whole “nice guys finish last” thing. I went through the same thing when I was younger, just as a close friend of mine is currently dealing with the sting of those words, and feel I have a prospective to share. My video rant was interrupted by a phone call so part 2 will be posted to conclude my opinion. * nice guy advice * advice for nice guys * Divas * female nurturing * nice guys * love * dating women * heartbreak * relationships * catch the mate * single men * plenty of fish * self-confident * date * man * how to attract guys * flirt with men * relationships * real men * how to attract women
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I find it ironic that some women want men to be more open about their feelings yet those very women can’t give a guy an honest answer of what they really want, doubled with the fact that what they say isn’t want they want.
Dude some women don’t know what they want or what they need.
Jerks, badboys project confidence, strenght and dominance. Most women assume that understanding, considerate and sensitive to women are obviously there too. Wrong. Most women confuse being bad with being strong and being nice with being weak. Finding a balance between being bad and nice is the ideal. It is like walking a tightrope.
The ilussive obvious. Women want a man. But what is a man to a woman? Women desire men who are confident, strong, and dominant who are also understanding, considerate, sensitive to her emotions guy. Nice guys demonstrate the latter part of the phrase. They are understanding, considerat and sensitive to women’s emotions but lack in the confident, strong and dominant department.
“I can’t date you because you’re too nice.”
Wtf? Guys, stop whining. If you give a crap about this crap, then it is your own fault. There are thousands of nice girls and if someone is a bitch, don’t waste a second thought on them and go on. Why do you complain about how they make you suffer if you run to them. You’re a man, act like it. Don’t become depependent on a girl that is bad for you. You’ve already fallen in love? Ignore it and it will go away and you can fuck someone else.
I think you nailed it when you said that telling a guy he’s “too nice” is a failed attempt to be inoffensive when rejecting him. It does indeed create confusion, and it’s important for women to be cognizant of this.
I am 37, 6 Foot 5, Successful. I feel I do not need anyone. I live in a beautiful rural part of the United States now. I was raised in New York City. I feel females are very lost today. If I meet one fine, but I can live my life without anyone & I am fine. I work out for my health. not to Impress anyone but myself. A woman should love a man, even if he is fat and old. We all age. Young people forget this. can you live alone forever ? I can. Can females ? Really ?
love girls….but they are fuckin retarded
thats how i feel sometimes
Monogamy is a myth anyway so men are better off having some sex here and there, and leave. Then you have TIME to do the things you like. Choose wisely one or two women to raise your children (but still leave – you’ll be useful to the children as a friend). If you stay, she will enslave you.
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Correct!
Not always,but mostly
Yeh they’re attracted to “bad -boys” because they think the “tough ” guy’s gonna protect them… Guess it don’t work out so well in a good percentage of times…. What a sad mixed up shitty society we’ve become.What you’re saying my friend is the all too often case. Nice man- manners, long term prospects, no violence… F**K NO! They want hard-core , no f-ing idea , seriously. But when they’re 30 + yrs old with kids , watch ’em change their tune… Screw that for a joke….
Good point.
Well, that’s your problem right there, you watch Star Trek! Just kidding. Honestly, I don’t understand why, outside of those who are doormats, there is ever such a thing as being too nice. I think some people are too dysfunctional to know what’s good for them.
Dont listen to what women say, watch what they do
Don’t listen to women when you’re in relationships. Be nice, easygoing, and appear understanding, but actually discount everything that leaves their mouths. That’s the foundation of a lasting relationship. But the key is that you pay LIP SERVICE to what the girl says, but act as if you never heard her.
Will she call you out when she figures it out? Placate, reassure, then keep going. Appreciate women for what they are – don’t project rationality onto them.
Works like a motherfucking charm.
Cool Story Bro.
Condescending Wonka: Oh, all women are irrational bitches? You must really treat them well!
I know its a damn shame. I dont get it. And it seems like to me women are putting that pussy on lockdown even more so now, unless you are a dickhead or have a minimum of a million dollars. They are NEVER satisfied. The chances of you jumping out an airplane and surviving is better than finding a decent female who you can relate with.
I love it when I am walking down the street, minding my own business, and I see a woman who glances at me, and then quickly turns away in disdain.
I’m thinking to myself, ‘this woman is acting as if there is a chance that I would give her the time of day’.
I giggle to myself, and brush it off. Women are SO presumptuous.
Just be who you really are inside. The truith always comes out.
Tough guys deep fry chicken for a living or spend years behind bars smelling other men’s flatulence.
Agree.