Oy, yes, that is an unfortunate side effect of the alpha female who is not in touch with her feminine side. Aggression is never sexy. Hopefully your next girlfriend is a better match for you! Big hugs, M
Sorry you didn’t love this video, I know the conflicting advice can be really frustrating. That’s why I recommend choosing ONE philosophy and sticking with it. Good luck on your journey! Big hugs, M
Say this: “You know, I really like x, x and x, and it would make me really happy if you would plan the date. I just love it when a guy takes charge.” 🙂 Big hugs, M
Yes! Let him help. Practice gracious receiving. When he offers anything – even if you can do it yourself – let him!! It will make him feel amazing, which will make him want to be around you constantly. BIG hugs, M
I have a problem with accepting help from anyone, so when a guy offers, it’s in me to just say ‘no’ I can’t help it. But since you guys say it’s inherent that at let up, I’ll try from now on. Thankyou.
I had a friend who was an alpha female. I say had because I just got tired of her taking control of our chats and her low level of emotional intelligence. She was just too aggressive 70% of the time.
What a ridiculous video. I wish I’d stayed away from Mars and Venus and read Lundy Bancroft books instead before getting any other relationship advice. There are too many men who dont really know what they’re attracted to beyond the physical, or who are assholes thinking their desires are like ALL other men’s, so there’s a lot of conflicting BS about what men want..which is why this question How do I attract men? keeps getting “answered”over and over again
What about online dating? I often have guys ask me what I want to or like to do. Then when I make like 3 suggestions they say any of the above is fine with them. Then I pick one. Then they ask what day and time I am free. So basically I planned the whole date, how do I avoid this in the future?
I have commented on I don’t know how many of your videos now, but once again, this is so refreshingly insightful and it really is invaluable to hear what Christian has to say, coming from a man’s perspective! Even just to hear him agree and confirm what Marni is saying is very helpful and adds to my understanding. All these nuances can be confusing, and these really help broaden my view, of how this feminine/masculine thing works without sacrificing a part of myself. Thanks to both of you. 🙂
He loves her!
WoW! That IS so right! I’m so used to giving that receiving is so hard for me, thanks !
Oy, yes, that is an unfortunate side effect of the alpha female who is not in touch with her feminine side. Aggression is never sexy. Hopefully your next girlfriend is a better match for you! Big hugs, M
Glad you loved it! Big hugs, M
Sorry you didn’t love this video, I know the conflicting advice can be really frustrating. That’s why I recommend choosing ONE philosophy and sticking with it. Good luck on your journey! Big hugs, M
Say this: “You know, I really like x, x and x, and it would make me really happy if you would plan the date. I just love it when a guy takes charge.” 🙂 Big hugs, M
She’s still around. As long as your “alpha male” game is in tip top condition, you should attract a feminine woman no problem. Big hugs, M
Aw thank you! Please keep commenting and sharing your thoughts. I’m so glad the videos are helping you! BIG hugs, M
Hmm then they don’t deserve your time! Big hugs, M
Yes! Let him help. Practice gracious receiving. When he offers anything – even if you can do it yourself – let him!! It will make him feel amazing, which will make him want to be around you constantly. BIG hugs, M
How can learn about such a depressing subject without becoming jaded. There is nothing uglier than the psychology behind attraction.
I have a problem with accepting help from anyone, so when a guy offers, it’s in me to just say ‘no’ I can’t help it. But since you guys say it’s inherent that at let up, I’ll try from now on. Thankyou.
His body language says I like you 😉
I had a friend who was an alpha female. I say had because I just got tired of her taking control of our chats and her low level of emotional intelligence. She was just too aggressive 70% of the time.
I don’t know if I’m alpha or beta… xDD lol
I love this video. Im well aware of this issue, I just need some one remind me..
What a ridiculous video. I wish I’d stayed away from Mars and Venus and read Lundy Bancroft books instead before getting any other relationship advice. There are too many men who dont really know what they’re attracted to beyond the physical, or who are assholes thinking their desires are like ALL other men’s, so there’s a lot of conflicting BS about what men want..which is why this question How do I attract men? keeps getting “answered”over and over again
The scumbags I meet don’t do ‘courting’
What about online dating? I often have guys ask me what I want to or like to do. Then when I make like 3 suggestions they say any of the above is fine with them. Then I pick one. Then they ask what day and time I am free. So basically I planned the whole date, how do I avoid this in the future?
I think the real problem is that the “beta female” is quickly becoming extinct…I am not having much luck.
I have commented on I don’t know how many of your videos now, but once again, this is so refreshingly insightful and it really is invaluable to hear what Christian has to say, coming from a man’s perspective! Even just to hear him agree and confirm what Marni is saying is very helpful and adds to my understanding. All these nuances can be confusing, and these really help broaden my view, of how this feminine/masculine thing works without sacrificing a part of myself. Thanks to both of you. 🙂
Hmm sexist..
Alpha females are strong and the best. Oh ya.
alpha female in the making :/
Kiss your hands 5 times say his name 15 repost this on 2 videos and he will ask u out tomorrow