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I did and it works but WHERE the rest of the QUESTIONNNNSSS!!! Matt…. are you playing tricks here?
You’re not supposed to say that lol.
You’re just supposed to start asking questions and using this technique,
but don’t literally say “hey you know what, let’s do 21 questions. I’ll ask you something and then it’s your turn” XD
i like this guy….
This is a great idea but I feel kinda silly saying hey lets play a game! It makes me feel kinda childish
How cool ^^
why is he so beautiful? T___T
Absolutely!! Don’t be afraid of some silence. I find people I’m most comfortable with I’m not afraid to have a little bit of silence.
That may be the view of the talkative person who is accustomed to inane chatter, but in a thought-provoking conversation a pause is refreshing, not embarrassing. It allows a person to think about what has been said, and to think about what he is going to say. Such thought can result in stimulating expressions that make a conversation worthwhile.
The incoherent ramblings of a talkative person do not produce uplifting conversation. A conversation becomes interesting when those in it linger for awhile on one subject, allowing each person to make expressions. With each speaking and listening, the conversation can become constructive and enjoyable. A pause in it should not be viewed as an embarrassing gap that must be filled with words
It is self-centeredness in the extreme to pour into another person’s ear tiresome chatter and then not listen when he finally has an opportunity to squeeze in a few words. A considerate person will be listening instead of thinking of the next barrage of words to fling at his companion. One should not vainly imagine that he has the only worthwhile things to say. Talking endlessly about oneself may seem worthwhile to the one doing the talking, but it is not to others.
You do not fool them by occasionally nodding your head or giving a grunt. They know if you are not listening. Out of politeness, pay attention to what they say, and you may learn something.
Chattering on and on about personal problems, views and experiences, giving unnecessary and tiresome details, is a display of selfish disregard for the interests and time of other people. Instead of talking at great length about yourself, encourage others to talk about the things that interest them. When they express themselves, listen to what they say. Do not impolitely daydream or begin reading something.
It takes thought to say something that is instructive and beneficial to your listeners, but if you are constantly spouting words, how can your speech contain anything that is thought-provoking? It is more likely to be prattle that endlessly drums on benumbed ears. “The less men think the more they talk,” said the French philosopher Charles de Montesquieu.
The Greek philosopher Socrates once said: “Nature has given us two ears, two eyes, and but one tongue, to the end that we should hear and see more than we speak.” If you deluge your listeners with a steady stream of words, how much can you learn from them? In fact, how much can they actually learn from you?
WORDS pouring out of the mouth of a talkative person are, to some people, like the endless gushing of water from a large pipe. There seems to be no end to them. They inundate polite listeners and drown any efforts to carry on a refreshing conversation. The loquacious person fails to realize that conversation is a two-way exchange of expressions in which listening is as important as speaking.
I had a guy in work ask me a cross quite room.just himself & me was inthe room. What was my favorite song? .And he goes onto his computer to find it to play it for me.Then after the songs was done,He goes there is yr song for today.& tomorrow I will play you another song U like. LIKE TO HEAR YR THOUGHTS ON THAT
HE HAS THE SEXIEST BRITISH ACCENT EVER JESUS CHRIST! LORD HAVE MERCY SAVIOR DIVINE KING HE IS EXQUISITE! WOW!!!!!!
I was answering Titanic, in my head, at the same time as he said it!
a Barbados shout out, ♥♥ it!!!
The same way! If you find someone who rejects you for that, they are not worth your time anyways! Everyone is beautiful and everyone has their own story worth listening to! 🙂
The same way! If you find someone who rejects you for that, they are not worth your time anyways! Everyone is beautiful and everyone has their own story worth listening to! 🙂
OMG he sounds like Harry Potter and its not just the accent… Wierd.. lol