Get More Confidence Here: www.tooshytodate.com Join Stephan Erdman’s confidence building program here www.doubleyourconfidencechallenge.com Confidence is key when it comes to approaching and attracting women. And men who have a lack of confidence often lose self esteem because they blame themselves for their low self confidence. What they forget is that it’s possible to build self confidence for any man who wants to improve their confidence level as long as they’re committed to taking small steps every day to stepping just a tiny bit outside of their “comfort zone”. Your comfort zone is the key element that you need to challenge every day because if you don’t, you won’t be able to gain confidence. That doesn’t mean in order to be self confident you need to do dangerous things, but simply to take regular small steps just outside of what is totally inside your comfort zone. It’s easy to build confidence this way sustainably, you’ll notice the longer term benefits after a while and you’ll notice a secret side effect in other areas of your life. Stephan Erdman is a confidence and dating expert teaching authentic game to men who want to attract women without the stress of learning routines, using weird pick up lines or feeling uncomfortable. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re “acting” when it comes to meeting women and you’d prefer to attract women to you rather than to another “pick up artist’s routine” then his approach will be the answer you’ve been looking for. Learn …
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You sir have changed my life for the best. Thank You.
Hey man, this is probably the 6th video of yours I’ve watched in 2 days. I just wanted to say I think your videos are truthful, useful and awesome in general!! You project a very sincere intent to help people and that in itself is very refreshing. I’m getting back into dating after many years of being in a pretty dark place – even though i’m an extremely likeable guy. I recently broke out of my comfort zone with crazy success! Thanks so much for all the advice. Looking forward to trying it all.
Lefty
4:17 Fuck off basically.. ha ha I love it.
I like how you use a mic or whatever it is cause your video quality comes out quite good compared to other youtubers
are you married Stephan?
I think I’ll stalk you. Lol
thanks a lot u should make a movie or be film maker, u r a gem
Wow, helps a lot Stephan, will keep that in mind
man this clarifies a lot of things.. yesterday i went for the very first time to a discotheque, and i felt weird and bad because i wanted to meet this girl, and i didn’t, i wanted to chat more with people, and i didn’t but i guess just by watching this video i’m confidant to step out of my comfort zone and get good at it!
“fuck off basically” LMAO
Very good video Stephan! Never thought it like this way and this makes really much sense. One thing that i myself sometimes struggle with is teasing with girls. With some girls i can tease with them pretty good, but with others i always ask myself “Oh no what if she gets sad or something like that” and end up not doing it. Can ya make a video on teasing girls?
Watch what he says at 9:21 then play from 9:52 🙂
But on a serious note, this is def amongst the most inspiring and applicable videos I have come across so far.
stephan i have a question, almost relevant, you have a very nice natural voice but you have a lot of suave and confidence to it, how do i build this up? i am willing to step out of my comfort zone but how do i make my voice more confident, or speak stronger? if this makes any sense, i often find myself at parties having to yell or speak strangely because my voice feels weak and then i loose confidence and then my voice gets weaker, and its a terrible cycle, what should i do
Yes, but sometimes when you get out your comfort zone, it’s like saying go to a bar at the wrong time, at the wrong place and end up getting shot..
Yes stephan, I will stalk you! Ahaha, funny as hell.
How can I learn to be more talkative?I’m really quiet and it effects my dating life and even being able to make friends.Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Stagnation kills love – Its so true. I really like your videos! Keep it up!
You the man!
Good job describing this bro, I have something to add;
Another great technique to increase your confidence is Modelling, act like a person who is already successful doing what you want to be better with. “Fake it till you make it” It might sound a little deceptive at first, but this is the fastest way to move forward, and remember to reflect on your success, what are the things you did differently that made the interaction successful. It takes 5 minutes and it works.
Stephan is the best author of “meeting videos” on youtube !
Greate Steph! /;-)
i love you