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I got rejected by a guy recently because I wouldn’t sleep with him. He wasn’t really into me anyway, he just wanted to have sex so I’m glad I didn’t sleep with him
Your video’s are great! Please could you do one about being close to a guy, like hugging etc, how guys like to feel close to a girl?:)
Never been rejected because I’ve never put myself out there. I’ve liked guys a lot but I’ve always been like “hahaahahaha, must be a joke, how can someone like me” lol so yeah sad but true.
Love your videos. Could you do one about breaking up from long term relationships please x
OMG I have just relised that I haout this Ive never been rejected because I was always too shy or scared to take the risk ! How sad is that …. because that also means that I hardly ever end up with the guys I want to end up with either. I am def going to do something about this the first chance I get and I dont even think I will mind being rejected as long as I have the balls to at least try. thanx Matt 🙂 marry me ? ha ha X
also about my rejection i was really into this guy and i think he liked me back because he says nice things about me to my friends like she is cute,perfect etc.One day my friends encouraged me to talk to him so I said that I like him and he basically said okay and that is it.I felt really stupid at first because I thought he liked me but he basically rejected me and in the end it actually for the better because i’ve learnt to deal with it and i did not let my hopes up much longer so I moved on
the thing about you said about values is so true,you opened my eyes
recently got rejected from a school i applied to. was in my house where i study. looked at it and said whatever it wasnt my top school anyway. i always kinda just wonder the reasons why tho
I wanted to see where our relationship stood.So I decided to be confident and put a move on him. I knew the risks that would be there by doing so but I thought hey what do I got to lose? Nothing. Just means some else is so much better is out there for me. He did reject me he surprised me by his responds, I just want to be friends. But it was his actions towards me that made me respect the guy more. He didn’t blow me off or put up a barrier like so many other guys did to me before.
I sent a guy a valentine with candy. He just said thanks and ignored me for a while. Months later, he apparently thought I was safe to be around again and told me all about how awesome his girlfriend was. Suddenly, I wasn’t feeling so bad about complaining about said girl to a friend months before.
what broad rejected you?
Honestly I like the video AKA the value of the video very good hints. Anyhoo rejection rejection hum
I was 19 years old and really liked a boy, one night a group of friends went out and I got myself drunk and told him that I really liked him and cried like crazy. The guy stood up and walked out of the door, did not say a word. Haha.. now when I think back, at least men in that age don’t even pretend to be kind and they are not misleading.
ya i pretty much agree with that..like i said it just throws everything off because now he knows he’s got the upper hand and the mystery and the fun of the chase is gone…which for a girl is reeeally not good cause we’re more emotional and he will play her like a fiddle..i wouldnt be saying this if i hadnt seen it happen amillion times…thankfully ive protected myself from that sh**
I never listen to feminazi’s lol
But its a good point.
I can say as a male I have kinda experienced that once or twice lol
Its called a gold digger
Like a hooker but smarter lol
Yeah you’re right, and I know that. That’s why it’s not a big deal for me been rejected. Wtv, I’ve got many good things to do, I’ve got friends and family, I’ve got work, and thats what rly matter to me… One day maybe the right guy appears im my life. I’m not searching for him. (x thanks for the advice anyway.
I think it is in his job description to not take advantage of impressionable students. It protects the students. It is natural to have these infatuations. That is why the job description protects him and the students.
From posts here, girls are giving all their power away by telling a guy they really like them. Guys don’t like this. It puts pressure on them. They will brag to their mates how they could do you now that U have disclosed a childish thing like that. Do not chase them away with your neediness. They NEED to want to want you. They have to earn your ‘percieved value’. You don’t throw your heart at some ‘dreamy guy’s feet, hoping he will be flattered and consider you. That is how u get walked on
I love how you learn what you can and bounce back so quickly. Women have to let go when a man says as politely as he can. “i am busy, bye” means no and don’t stalk me on fb and try and be friends.
What a complete waste of space he was. You are right. He was just showing off to his mates that he could pull a girl and treat her badly. So you learnt by having a stab, that he was rubbish.
You go KDgurl02. He was being honest and you stood up for yourself and said sure – but we can’t be friends anymore. “I am sick of your shit” as the song goes. Well Done!!
guys love to keep their options open.Remember when people dated more than one person because they we not jumping around having random sex but going out dancing on “DATES” This makes men pay attention. You say that you have several gentlemen that you date but you don’t have a serious partner because you are just dating and not having sex. YOUR ‘percieved VALUE’ skyrockets!they think…. she must be special and interesting if several men are willing to show her a nice time on a “DATE” He pays.
Excellent. In my marriage i had financial security but he did not flirt with me or initiate sex etc. I kept going for walks thinking, “Why doesn’t he come on to me?” Obsessional, feeling rejected as a woman, I blamed myself. The answer was right there. The answer is “he didn’t want to” I left him and have found myself and i am not blaming myself anymore or trying to solve the problems in my marriage. I gave up and knew I had to move on. I did move on and have done well. YAY 4 me.